guidance needed

[taco]

so... when it comes to alot of things i feel that im in a situation to offer advice and have the ability to help people by stepping back and looking at a situation and looking at the possible outcomes like an adult. Im NOT talking about the stupid shit we talk about in vent or drunk stories. im talking about legitimate things that happen in life. I was raised that you should always help someone who is less fortunate than you in anyway. so i constantly surround myself (not by choice but it just happends..) with people who need help and to be honest im tired. im losing friends because my patience with them is just not there because they are unable to help themselves so what the hell am i supposed to do? I feel that if I continue down this road I will have no friends because Im constantly surrounded by people who are less mature then me (alot of this is due to the industry and school Im in...unfortunatly) but none the less. anyone have a similar situation as the one im in?





any advice is welcome but as usual with my serious posts. if you have nothing to add then get the fuck off this post

[Tom]

If your friends REALLY need help, just be there for them. You don't have to do shit, and if they don't listen to you and continue screwing themselves over, whatever it's on them. As for the patience thing, might as well let everything they are doing go and just enjoy yourself (if you can't beat em join em kind of thing)

[Defect]

there is a difference between you asking them if they need help and them asking you. if you ask them if they need help they may not help themselves (just take the free help/advice and then it stops), thing about them asking you is that they are there to help themselves and just need help getting there (if you get what i am talking about).

there is suppose to be a second part to this post but i cant think right now...not working out for me